Why some man, don't you message first on Tinder, Bumble, or Hinge?

Can you swipe on Tinder safely without your girlfriend, wife, or neighbor be aware of it? I don’t want to discuss the moral part of cheating as the definition can be different for different people. However, Tinder plus has the option that lets you limit the risk. By the way if you are seriously consider this please write in anonymously in the comment your motivation, maybe tere some other solution.

With the Tinder feature “Control who sees you “ and the option “Only people I’ve Liked,” you can hide from unwanted exposure. Your profile will be shown only to people you “swiped right,” so you can see first the face of people that will swipe on you.

This function doesn’t solve all the problems:

• If your girlfriend or boyfriend is suspicious, he may create a fake account with a different picture to spot you.
• Tinder match people based on location, so you may not recognize your neighbor with the photoshop picture who will tell on you.
• If you use photos that don’t show your entire face, you will be seen as suspicious right away. If someone is not showing the face, it means this person is hiding something. Anyway, there is a lot of space for creativity about not showing your face. You can think of a creative photo idea, excuse, or challenge that will explain why you post yourself like this.

You also need to consider:

Use pictures that are not posted anywhere else. Otherwise, it will be easy to find with a Google image search by the person you are dating.

Don’t pay for Tinder premium with your shared bank account ;)

Don’t link your real Facebook or Instagram account.

Buy a different sim card or phone number for this purpose. It’s easier to remove the evidence. Be aware that your wife can use your phone to recover the account password.

Don’t use your private Mesenger, Whatsapp, Instagram, or other social media if another person has evil intentions and wants to blackmail you.

Still, your significant other’s friends may come across your profile.

Why are you looking for a romance outside of relation in the first place?

Maybe it’s worth to work on the relationship and figure out why you feel you need to seek an affair. Consider breaking up with your partner?

Go work on your relationship and figure out why you feel you need to seek an affair in the 1st place. I’d recommend counseling.

Tell your partner that you wish to end your relationship with him/her because you want to have sex with other people.

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