Sex Dating Websites Scams

You found a website full of ladies looking for hookup...

You enter the website teasing you with ladies searching for casual sex. You browse through their profiles and you see a lot of naked girls looking for a lover.

It seems like a paradise for a guy looking for sex. Unfortunately, he doesn’t know that it will cost him a fortune. And who are the eager ladies? Let’s see.

You register on a website that offers sex dates and you get messages from women. There is only one catch. In order to read or reply to those messages, you need to pay for the premium membership or send an overpriced text.

So you pay...

You talk to women and quickly realize that none of them wants to go on a casual date.

How come? Yet all women seek sex in here.

What’s more…

You have a feeling that most of their profiles are fake and there are actually no real women there.

Your money is gone, but the scam is not over. This wonderful „dating website” will squeeze even more from you, because according to their rules if you don’t cancel your membership on time, you continue to pay.

You are not aware of that because it’s obvious that if you paid for 60 days, you want to use the dating service for no longer than 60 days. And besides, who wants to read 30 pages Terms and Conditions written in the least understandable manner? Where is the information about the “automatic renewal” of your membership?

So after 60 days, you find out that they still have been drawing money from your credit card. You want to quit your membership but it turns out that this process is actually complicated. For example, you have to find a button for canceling membership and send a lot of private information like your address and your surname. Or send fax abroad (who has a fax machine?). Doing that from your company fax is a rather bad idea.

So instead of sex and beautiful women, we get wrecked nerves and lost money.

Welcome to the world of scam and „Internet sex dates”.

A lot of men looking for free sex but not so many women

From the website owner’s perspective

Hundreds of men seek casual sex, no strings attached. Why not create a website for guys like them? A great idea for a business. Many of them would be tempted by free, casual sex.

The only problem is?

There are just a few women seeking the same thing.

How does he get around that?

He fabricates hundreds of women’s ads, adds naked photos downloaded from porn websites. In each profile there’s a note - they look for a lover and casual, meaningless sex.

And so he gets the ball rolling.

Now all he has to do is suggest a membership, costing e.g. 25 USD a month. Which is, taking into consideration brothel rates, cheap as hell. A reasonable guy calculates the prices and realizes that the access to the ladies looking for free sex will quickly pay off.

Unfortunately, it’s hard to have a sex date when most of the profiles are fake or fraud. It’s obvious that a dissatisfied client is not going to pay for the next month. So the website owner invents a regulation that if a client will not give up his membership in a defined way (by sending a fax or calling abroad) he continues to pay a monthly fee.

If the client is not willing to pay any longer, he is being intimidated by a bailiff or debt recovery firm. The business is still going strong!

Running it is impossible without fake profiles because the women are barely interested in using the aforementioned website.

It doesn’t mean that women don’t seek lovers. Most of them just don’t do it via such channels.

Can you find real chicks on adult websites?

There are real women too, but most of them log in because their objective is to squeeze some money out of you (and without going to bed)…

The most common are frauds or girls looking for sponsorship:

Russian brides – women from Eastern Europe teasing men to buy them a plane ticket or a visa. You send them money but they don’t show up, still asking for money though. You will recognize such girls by their emails, sent from weird addresses, and lacking grammatical correctness. Beware of them, you can lose a lot of money.

Girls looking for sponsorship and prostitutes – a girl writes about having sex with you, and when you meet her, you find out that she is a whore. Such girls use an online dating site to advertise.

Why is it so hard to find a lover in online sex dates?

• There are tons of websites with sex-searching ladies. If there are so many of them, is it possible that these women exceed the number of those on regular online dating sites? No, it’s not! Most of their profiles are fake. And it’s going to be hard to find a real woman among them.
• For every girl looking for casual sex there are dozens of men interested. It’s impossible for her to sleep with each of them, so she starts to be picky.
• It’s much harder for her to make a decision to go on a date, cause a guy might be a psycho or abusive. That’s why she thinks twice before she ever decides to go out with him.
• A semi-pretty lady may find a man for sex at every party. But at least she can meet him in person and get to know him a bit. This is the reason dating websites are full of uglier girls.
• A woman wants a love affair, not just raw sex. She is eager to have sex with feelings. Wants to feel sexy, desired, and beautiful. To be conquered and taken to bed in his arms. By registering at the website and going to bed with the first guy she talks to online, the only thing she feels afterward is that she’s a slut. She spent a night with someone she doesn’t even know, who didn’t even make an effort to win her over.

Fake profiles

Real women are rare on such websites. In the USA the Adult Friend Finder (an adult website offering sex dates) was accused of creating fake profiles and duping men into paying for memberships.

The reality is harsh. It’s hard to find enough women looking for casual sex to put their profiles on a website. Even on regular dating sites, you won’t find a single account saying: „if you’re looking for sex, write to me”. And further, encourage ladies to register and go on a date! Well, including sex of course. Not worth it with such membership prices.

Is every casual sex dating website a scam

Not all of them, for sure, but each has a lot of fake accounts anyway. It will be hard to find a real, honest dating website.

On the Internet, you can find loads of comments like: "Yeah, these websites are a scam but I have found the one with real ladies. I recommend you all www...pl"

Usually, it’s an ad, not a true opinion. Why did I mention that? Cause I get emails from men tricked by so-called hookup dating sites.

If you ever decide to register at some „adult website” be aware of a possible scam.

Limit the risk of losing money:

• When registering at any adult website read its regulations and look for automatic membership renewal. Unfortunately, many of them do have such statements.
• Search for website opinions and watch out for those which recommend a website with real ladies.
• Beware of websites with women writing to you in the first place. On a regular dating website, you need at least a good profile to make a relationship-seeking woman interested so she makes the first move. Such things don’t happen on sex websites. A girl never writes first. And if she does, this is a fake message sent by website admin, enticing you to make bank transfers.

Can you find sex dating site that don't have fake profiles?

The answer to this question is pretty straight forward - NO!

You can't find adult websites that don't have scammers and bogus profiles. Few have some real women there and countless scammers and fake profiles and some tricky pricing system. Here is the list of a fake adult hookup site that will drain your wallet without any one nightstand.

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Russian brides online dating scam if you are using Russian or Ukrainian dating site to find a wife. Or you are chatting with women that pretend to be from Eastern Europe (Russia, Ukraine, Moldova, Belarus) and claim to look for a husband.